Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Sad
I had a dear friend call me today, who was supposed to be a part of my wedding party, he told me that he can not come to the wedding. His girlfriend does not wish to go and he made the choice to stay with her and not come. I am very hurt by this and angry. My wedding is in 4 days and I have alot to do without worrying about who is going to take his place during the ceremony. I just gave my Aunt the advice of taking time apart when you are hurt or angry with someone, it's good advice. So I called this person and told them that I was taking a break from our friendship for awhile just until I calm down and his response was to not bother calling him at all. I guess our friendship was not what I thought it was. I am a believer in everything happens for a reason, so I know there is a reason for all of this I just can't see it right now. All I can see at this moment is the hurt and anger.
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Don't you hate it when your advice comes back to haunt you? You are probably right that the friendship wasn't there to begin with but that doesn't take away the hurt.
We have to forgive people when they don't live up to our expectations but we have to be careful that our expectations aren't unreasonable. Sometimes that happens too. Don't let this hurt interfer with the happiness of your Wedding. Put it out of your heart and just move on.
Luv ya, Muff
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