friends don't quit
Current mood: sad
I have been given a chance to evaluate my friendships. I have been told that I was needy. This bothered me so in an attempt to clean my side of the street so to speak, I called people I trust, people who have known me for at least 3 years or more, and asked them If I was being too needy. Must of them said that I am not normally but since Stephen died I have been and that was to be expected. I don't understand how anyone could walk away from a healthy relationship, but that is what I feel is happening. I am hurt of course.But mostly I am beating myself up wondering what exactly I did to make certain friends just quit and walk away. I made amends for what I thought I did wrong. I had hoped that it would work, but it did not.
1 comment:
Friends don't quit and that is the truth. People who walk away from a
relationship are not true friends;
they are aquaintences. Just enjoy them for their brief stay and let them go. Beating yourself up over something rarely helps I've found.
All I do is bruise my bode and that tends to be very unsatisfying. One of the hardest things is not letting my expectations be unrealistic. In other words,not expecting something from someone that they are not able to give.
Thanks for the suggestion about the tree. My only problem with that is that if I get down, I can not get up. I do agree with your
idea of the view.
Luv ya, Muff
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